By:
Bruce Risler, Risler Financial Management
Getting to the “next level’ isn’t always
easy. In fact, as we all know much too well,
it can be downright difficult! Why does it
have to be an uphill battle?
The fact is it doesn’t have to be and
whoever said you have to go it alone? That’s
where relationships come in…and I
couldn’t be more grateful for my
connection and association with
my coach, Bob Waks, and all those at The
Training Center. After all, they are an
essential partner in my growth and success.
For over 11 years, I have been a faithful
devotee of the program. Almost from the very
start, I began to feel the impact. It
started with avoiding unpaid
consulting…and I remember it like it
was yesterday.
I had just gained a new client, an employee
of a large furniture distributor. I asked
for referrals and was particularly pleased
when she referred me to the company’s HR
Director. I called, arranged a meeting and
met with this very nice man who was
insistent that I provide “answers” to his
countless questions. Understanding how
important those answers were to him…and
realizing that those answers were all I had,
I was faced with a choice; business as usual
(unpaid consulting) or business as it ought
to be (first you hire me, then the answers).
It’s really simple, but when you’re always
chomping at the bit, it’s hard to resist. I
asked if he would design a layout, order in
all the furniture and deliver it according
to specifications of an unsigned
contract, without an appropriate and
reasonable deposit and firm commitment to
work together. Now, instead of answering his
questions free of charge, he was answering
mine. And, his answer was going to tell me
whether or not I had a new client. He gave
me a very knowing smile and said ‘Ok, let’s
get started”. I now had a new client. It
just so happened to also be my largest
client at that time.
Equipped with the proper Behavior, right
Attitude, and essential Techniques, I
learned to stop wasting time educating
prospects and giving free advice. Instead, I
started to spend that precious time more
effectively with people I could really help,
who wanted my help, and most of all, who
valued that help enough to properly
compensate me for my long hours and hard
effort.
More respectful, mutually beneficial, and
rewarding relationships continued to
develop, as I ascended to each “next level”.
Our experiences are building blocks to
greater knowledge and the experiences I have
had at The Training Center have increased my
knowledge and ability to greater overall
effectiveness. What does that mean? It means
that I have learned to implement Up
Front Contracts and gather
Pain with ease. I’m now a better
listener and have learned from others in
Open Forum workshops as to how others handle
various situations that I may encounter. By
debriefing my calls and sharing my ‘pain’
with the class, I have learned what I could
have done better.
Seeing the different styles of the coaches
has expanded my thinking as to my own
consultative style, resulting in greater
confidence. After all, the program now
belongs to me. I OWN it!
QuickStart Training, Professional
One-on-One Coaching, President’s Club Open
Forum, Cut and Paste and other
programs throughout the year have helped
increase my production and quality of life.
I still send my Cookbook to my
coach every week!
My business has grown over the years, almost
exclusively through referrals from existing
clients and professional advisor
relationships. In addition, in order to
protect the integrity of the services
I currently provide to my existing clients,
I only accept a certain number of new
clients each year.
Thank you to everyone at The Training
center; the knowledgeable coaches, the
attentive staff and the brave salespeople
who divulge their fears so that I may learn!
By Bruce Risler, Risler Financial Management
is a fee-based, boutique Financial Planning
Firm in Plymouth Meeting, PA. Their
Mission is: “to competently and
ethically guide our clients to Financial
Peace of Mind, enabling them to focus on
the more Meaningful things in Life.”
They may be reached at 610-825-5687,
lisa.alban@lpl.com or at
www.lpl.com/bruce.risler






